Swap the evening drink for an alcohol-free ritual that marks the transition out...

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Swap the evening drink for an alcohol-free ritual that marks the transition out of work, offers a well-earned reward and gives you permission to switch off. Use simple sensory cues to make your new routine satisfying and easier to repeat.